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4 Reasons Why You Sabotage your Self-esteem
2. I’m a Fraud
Some of us feel that previous accomplishments, acknowledgements, and accolades somehow were a fluke and not fully deserved. We lack ownership of our successes and the confidence that we can keep the winning streak alive. They think, “If people really knew the truth, they’d know I have no idea what I’m doing. I’m an imposter.” This is not simple modesty; it’s an expression of self-doubt characterizing a scarcity of self-belief. We feel tremendous anxiety and stress while worrying that the truth will eventually come out: that they’re a fraud who doesn’t really know what they’re talking about. They fear that somehow, someone will look behind the green curtain and realize that the “Great and Powerful Oz” is nothing more than a weak, old man with a microphone. That’s why we self-sabotage and avoid situations where our weaknesses or vulnerabilities could potentially be exposed
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